How to Nurture Your Tribe Once you Find them

It has been two weeks since I got back from #WeAllGrow Summit and its taken me this long to get settled and take it all in.  One of the highlights of attending is catching up with my tribe.

I had several women reach out to me after my posts surrounding We All Grow like this one and this one, and most share with me how they really want to find their tribe.  I feel ya-it's not easy, but it will happen. I believe people feed off your energy.  If your energy is fearful or unsure, then it is not going to happen.  You must first come to terms with your greatness! We all have something to offer.  Once you realize how awesome you are and put yourself out there, it will happen. 

I have sister-friends who are moms like me, and provide support and we get together for my kind of playdates--low key and shoes off.  I have sister-friends who are major mom-bosses.  I mean making things happen kind of women that push me to aim higher.  I have sister-friends who are hustling and working on starting a family.  Some of my friends live far, but I know I can count on them.  Some live nearby and we still struggle to see each other, and that's okay.  

Let's assume you put yourself out there, you came to terms with your greatness and your tribe is growing.  Now that you have them, let's keep the energy going strong.  

HOW TO NUTURE YOUR TRIBE

Yearly meet-ups like #WeAllGrow summit is a great idea! Attending a summit or an event together is two-fold.  You will get inspired and catch-up with your girls. 

Stay in touch no matter how.  One of my friends is not big on texting, but is great at calling. Other friends are awesome at group texts which are hilarious.  I have a friend who loves to leave us voice memos--seriously this is highly underrated! I think she's onto something. Love you Lola!

Applaud their success like the queen of #WeAllGrow, Ana Flores, says "when one grows, we all grow!" 

Listen more, talk less.  It is amazing how much more you will find out when you listen with intention. 

Cut them some slack.  There will be seasons when of of you is less available than the other.  Don't give up.  Keep doing the above, and it is okay if you are not getting quick responses.  They will usually circle back. 

Comparison is no bueno. Keep in mind your friendship with each woman is different.  Don't compare yourself to their other friends or your mutual friends.  Every friendship is it's own seed. 

Show up.  Even if you cannot be there physically, be there virtually.  Of course, being physically present is best, so every now and again surprise them. 

I realize now to be a stronger confident woman, I needed to surround myself with women who want the best for me, but can also challenge me without being fearful. Cheers to finding your tribe!

*To the women in my tribe--You are loved and admired. Thank you for making me believe in the power of sisterhood. 

Motherhood: Finding Your Tribe (We All Grow)

Every time I read your vibe attracts your tribe, I used to think to myself "I want a tribe." Though I had no idea where I was supposed to go find said tribe or what exactly I was supposed to do to attract them. 

Recently, I attended my first bloggers conference and I was scared out of my mind.  Prior to becoming a mom and blogger, I had a legal career for 13 years, therefore my networking and friend-making skills were a little dusty.  

By putting myself out there and attending We All Grow, I can finally say I know what it feels like to find my tribe.  Of course, I am grateful to have met some wonderful sponsor representatives from Disney Parks, Today.com, Dove, Mom.me, ScholarShare and many more, but my most beloved takeaway is gaining likeminded sisters and realizing I am not alone. 

We All Grow Summit literally helped me grow.  I had no idea what to expect, and even after stalking their feed from last year, this conference blew my mind.  

As a mom and blogger, it is so important to find an outlet all to ourselves, and for me that has been blogging and running. I am so grateful to have met these wonderful group of women. 

Whether you are a new mom, home chef, a cultural goddess or a creative dreamer, take it from me, put yourself out there and you will find your tribe. When the time is right it will happen.  

I am excited to utilize what I have learned and take advantage of the support of my new tribe. With my renewed confidence in myself and my brand, I hope to continue to grow, provide positive posts and stay true to myself.

See you next year We All Grow!

(Second photo via Robson Muzel)

#WeAllGrow Summit

I have been anticipating March's arrival for months.  Tomorrow I am getting on a plane and leaving behind my daughter and super supportive loving husband for a few days. I am excited to announce I will be attending We All Grow Summit presented by Latina Bloggers Connect in Long Beach, California. 

I have so many feelings about this experience.  I feel blessed to be able to get away and take part in something completely new to me.  The mom and wife guilt is trying to creep in, but I know I am doing the right thing...

I am looking forward to meeting myself again--its been a long time! Here's to the new connections, learning and inspiration.  I am especially excited to be in the room to experience this year's storytellers because the 2015 storytellers were wonderful. 

This is where I get to stay for a few days...  

I plan to return inspired, refreshed and ready to share what I have learned.  Wish me luck.